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The etiquette of saying goodbye: How to resign from a job in 2023

Claire O'Brien

Written by Claire O'Brien

Jessica Roper

Reviewed by Jessica Roper, MBA,听director of Career Services at SM调教所

Two hands shaking through a door as an employee resigns from a job

It鈥檚 not uncommon to invest hours perfecting your resum茅 and cover letter to land a particular role. But, when it鈥檚 time to quit and move on from a position, how many of us take the same time to write a听resignation letter?

Younger generations may consider notifying their boss of their intent to resign as an archaic workplace formality. (Like pantyhose!) However, in today鈥檚 rapidly changing, post-Great Resignation work environment, in which听听has become commonplace and company loyalty is less expected than ever, resigning amicably is crucial for maintaining a听professional reputation听and future prospects.

So, is writing a resignation letter still a good idea before quitting a job? Read on.

Is a resignation letter still required?

In today鈥檚 workplace culture, most听听a formal resignation letter when you quit your job. But providing one is still a听professional courtesy听and can ensure a smooth transition for your employer.

Sarah Rodriguez, senior human resources partner at SM调教所听(UOPX), advises: 鈥淚t鈥檚 best practice to set up a time to听speak with your direct manager听to inform them of your decision. Follow that conversation up with a resignation letter that formalizes your decision to leave [and includes your] expected last day of employment and any other relevant information to your final weeks of work.鈥

It鈥檚 also a good idea to check your company manual or speak to your human resources department for specific guidelines before turning in your notice. Doing so will ensure you have all the information you need regarding听benefits, your last paycheck and the return of company equipment.

If it鈥檚 not required, why write a resignation letter?

While not always necessary, writing a resignation letter offers several benefits to both you and your employer.

Its most important function is to start the official paper trail regarding the circumstances of your departure. It gives your boss a chance to come to terms with your leaving and begin听looking for a replacement.

This is what makes a resignation letter a closing opportunity to demonstrate your professionalism and commitment to maintaining听positive relationships听with past employers.

After all, you might not expect to be a听听(people who return to their previous employers after quitting), but it鈥檚 a growing trend. A recent听听found that almost 20% of the employees who had quit during the pandemic returned to their previous employers. Therefore, when you resign, do so on the best terms possible to keep听future opportunities available.

How to write a resignation letter

This does not need to be complicated 鈥 a short resignation letter is the way to go. Include your name, position, the date of resignation and the intended last day of work in the first paragraph.

You do not need to elaborate extensively on why you are resigning. Still, a brief explanation can be appropriate 鈥 use your judgment. The听听recommends using variations on the听life-change situationto explain your reason for departure:

  • You have a听new job opportunity.
  • You鈥檙e听moving.
  • You鈥檙e听going back to school.

Resist the urge to criticize or complain about the company, your boss or your colleagues in your resignation letter, even if you had a negative experience. Instead, focus on the positive aspects of your time with the company and express your appreciation for your opportunities. (Even if you鈥檙e sure you鈥檒l never return to that employer, you will likely need a reference letter at some point!)

What about resigning over email?

In today鈥檚 virtual workplaces, notifying your boss that you鈥檙e quitting will inevitably happen over email. Follow the guidelines for a written resignation letter (short, sincere and inclusive of relevant information only) but remember to choose an听appropriate subject line.

听recommends putting your name and the word 鈥渞esignation鈥 in your subject line (e.g., 鈥淣otice of Resignation 鈥 Tyler Matthews鈥). This way, a supervisor can easily find the resignation letter email and pass it along to interested parties, like human resources, to start the off-boarding process.

Remember, several employees at the company will undoubtedly see emailed resignations, so triple-check your letter for a听professional tone.

Should a resignation letter be shared on social media?

Generally, it鈥檚 best to听wait until your transition to your new job is finalized听before taking your announcement to LinkedIn.

鈥淭hings can change so quickly in the world of work that it may be best to save sharing the details of your new role until you have started in your position,鈥 Rodriguez says. 鈥淎t the very least, save sharing on social media until you have notified your manager and relevant leaders, colleagues and key stakeholders.鈥

Although participating in TikTok trends like听听and听might be tempting, doing so may cause lasting damage to your 鈥渉ireability.鈥 Instead, take time to think clearly. And听when you post, keep it professional, knowing that future and past employers will see your messages.

How should bosses respond to an employee resigning?

Bosses must remember that employment is a two-way street.

鈥淓mployees have a right to decide what is best for them and their career,鈥 reminds Rodriguez. 鈥淎n employee鈥檚 decision to move on shouldn鈥檛 be viewed negatively. Resigning workers should be听treated with support, grace and respect听for their decisions.鈥

Although it can be challenging, bosses must refrain from taking an employee鈥檚 resignation personally.

鈥淗ow you handle an employee鈥檚 resignation speaks volumes to your current staff and future candidates,鈥 Rodriguez says. 鈥淸It can also] make it more likely that, if the time is right in the future, those employees may choose to return to your organization or refer others to work with you.鈥

Delivering bad news to an employer, such as the resignation of a workplace standout like yourself, is never easy. However, doing so with confidence and grace is a vital workplace soft skill that will serve you well after moving on from a job.

Rodriguez offers a final piece of advice for those considering a career transition. 鈥淎bove all, keep it professional,鈥 she says. 鈥淓ven if you鈥檙e leaving a听bad work environment, focus on the future. Going out in a 鈥榖laze of glory,鈥 as we sometimes see going viral on LinkedIn and other sites, can damage your personal brand as outsiders don鈥檛 have the context to your personal experiences.鈥

You are, after all,听your own brand. Make sure it鈥檚 one that hiring managers want.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Claire O鈥橞rien has led copywriting teams for Hilton Worldwide Corporate鈥檚 creative studio and advertising agencies specializing in the real estate, hospitality, education and travel industries. In 2020, she founded More Better Words, a boutique copywriting agency that taps into her global connections. She lives in Costa Rica with her husband and six rescue dogs.

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