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5 tough interview questions and how to handle them

Robert Strohmeyer

Written by Robert Strohmeyer

Jessica Roper

Reviewed by Jessica Roper, MBA,聽director of Career Services at SM调教所

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Why do employers ask difficult interview questions?

Interviewing for a new job can be stressful, but finding yourself unprepared for a challenging question might cost you the interview entirely.

Fortunately for candidates, the most challenging types of interview questions can also be the most common and therefore easy to anticipate. Sure, you鈥檒l probably have to field your share of difficult, domain-specific questions that require technical or industry expertise. But what we鈥檙e talking about here are those potentially tricky, general topics that can pop up in any interview. They usually relate to how you operate in stressful situations, how you get along with difficult people, how you handle mistakes, and how you deal with your own shortcomings or limitations.

The point of these gotcha questions is usually to identify personality red flags, clarify concerns the interviewer may have about your resum茅 and give the interviewer a sense of how you respond under pressure. So, it鈥檚 important to come to the interview prepared for any of these.聽

How to answer five common interview questions

Here鈥檚 how to answer five of the most common types of tough interview questions without breaking a sweat.

1. Why did you leave your last job?

Depending on your situation, you might get a different version of this question. (e.g., 鈥淲hy are you leaving your current job?鈥)

Either way, you have to address the assumption that you wouldn鈥檛 be leaving if things were going extremely well.

In reality, there鈥檚 no such thing as a perfect job, perfect company or perfect employer, and there are plenty of perfectly good reasons to explore your options and seek new opportunities. Hearing your motivation for leaving (or whether your departure was voluntary) can tell your interviewer a lot about how you might fit in at their company.

The top reasons people quit their jobs are:

  • Compensation
  • Advancement opportunities
  • Manager relationships

Often, it鈥檚 a combination of all three.

Ultimately, it鈥檚 best to be direct and succinct in your response to this question. If you hesitate, spend too much time contemplating or talk in circles, you鈥檒l likely raise concerns.聽

When you鈥檙e leaving because of salary

If you鈥檙e leaving for more pay, it鈥檚 important to convey that in a way that reflects a healthy sense of your value without coming across as greedy or mercenary. Even if you鈥檙e justified in deserving a higher salary, citing compensation as the only reason for job searching comes across as a red flag to potential employers. It can be OK to mention compensation as a motivator but cite other, non-financial incentives for why you鈥檙e looking for a new role.

Also, make sure to do your homework. Get to know the going rate in your market so you have a sound basis for your expectations. (More on this when we get to salary questions below.) Check reputable industry sites, such as the and , to start researching salary ranges for your role.

When you鈥檙e leaving because of advancement opportunities

Looking for advancement in your career is generally a good thing; employers usually want people who are looking to grow with their company. Briefly speaking to why the advancement you鈥檙e looking for wasn鈥檛 available in your last company can help assuage concerns you might not have been promotable before or might be avaricious in your expectations.

Again, healthy self-advocacy is the best approach. If advancement opportunities at your last company were generally limited because of the company鈥檚 size or the long tenure of senior staffers, speak to that as matter-of-factly as you can. If, on the other hand, you鈥檇 been repeatedly passed up for promotion while others advanced, be cautious of sending the signal that your expectations outstripped your job performance.聽

When you鈥檙e leaving because of your manager

We know from well-published research that dissatisfaction with a boss is a leading reason people quit their jobs. In all likelihood, your interviewer knows this too.

According to Pew Research, .

Speaking to manager conflicts can be tricky because, while it could be that your boss was a jerk, it could also be that you鈥檙e hard to get along with or have problems with authority.

In reality, many factors inform workplace relationships. Maybe it鈥檚 not you or your manager but just a bad fit with the company culture, burnout that strained your relationship or a personality mismatch.

These things happen, and if you choose to speak about them in an interview, be mindful to show sensitivity, emotional intelligence and self-awareness.

One way to do this is to turn your experience into a learning opportunity. If your previous manager was too hands-off or distracted, for example, try framing it along the lines of, 鈥淲orking for a company where I had a lot of latitude to achieve my goals taught me self-discipline and time management. It also showed me that I really thrive in situations where I have more guidance and mentorship.鈥

2.聽What are your weaknesses?

If your interviewer asks you about your professional strengths, you can bet you鈥檙e about to be asked about your weaknesses next.

How you speak about your personal and professional shortcomings says a lot about your mindset, so this question typically is less about your particular weaknesses and more about how well you know yourself and strive for improvement.

The thing to avoid here is the humble-bragging 鈥淚 may just be too perfect鈥 type of response. I鈥檝e had scores of candidates try variations on the theme of 鈥淚鈥檓 too hardworking,鈥 鈥淚鈥檓 too loyal鈥 or (and I swear this is a real example) 鈥淚鈥檓 so efficient, it makes people around me look bad.鈥 Whichever variation is offered, it almost always sounds obnoxious.

Sometimes, these are actual weaknesses to manage, but if that鈥檚 the case, you should be prepared to give specifics.

For instance, if you tend to spread yourself too thin and burn yourself out, that can be a good observation to share, along with strategies you employ to manage that tendency.

An effective strategy for answering questions about your weaknesses is to couch them in terms of your ideal environment or best-case situation for managing them. If you don鈥檛 deal well with being micromanaged, for example, you can focus on your need for independence, which gives you an opening to speak about how you operate and succeed with little direction.

A common variation is, 鈥淲hat would your previous manager say is your biggest weakness?鈥 This question is designed to gauge your awareness of how others perceive you. The catch here is that your prospective employer might actually have an opportunity to ask your last manager this very question in a reference call, so it鈥檚 a good idea to be reflective when addressing it.

That said, you can still apply the principle of framing your response in a way that speaks to your strengths and capacity for growth.

Whatever example you choose to share, be sure your answer demonstrates a fit for the role. Also, avoid oversharing. If you find yourself thinking about weaknesses that show a poor fit for the opportunity, you may want to reconsider whether it鈥檚 the right fit for you rather than attempt to talk your way around it in an interview.

3. Do you think you might be overqualified/underqualified for this role?

While some positions have very explicit technical, credentialing or competency requirements, many job descriptions posted to major job-search sites include ambitious or even downright unrealistic lists of requirements.

Hiring managers often load up job postings with wish lists of qualifications, hoping to narrow the field of applicants to the cream of the crop as they imagine it. That鈥檚 why it鈥檚 good to get familiar with the exact requirements and nice-to-haves mentioned for the role in question, and then scrutinize how your own experience or qualifications align (or not). That way you鈥檒l be ready if this question arises in your interview.

If your experience and training fall wildly short of what鈥檚 listed for the role, you likely won鈥檛 get an interview. So, if you鈥檙e answering this question with a hiring manager, it鈥檚 a signal you鈥檙e probably within the hiring manager鈥檚 expectations.

However, if you鈥檙e nervous about a few of the wish list鈥檚 bullet points, be ready to speak about them. For instance, if the listing calls for five years of experience in the same role, but you have only three years of experience, be ready to talk about the way your time in another role was similar enough to prepare you for this one.

Likewise, if your education is not in the required field, think ahead about how your experience or other education helped you develop the same skills or knowledge.

Overqualification can be a particularly frustrating problem to address. In general, hiring managers worry that an overqualified candidate will get bored, struggle with authority or perhaps be dissatisfied with the compensation offered.

At the same time, there are plenty of good reasons why a person with extensive qualifications might want to downshift to a less senior position. How you speak to this can make all the difference in demonstrating that your extra experience is an asset. It may be that your life circumstances have changed, for example, and you no longer want the added stress of managing people.

Or it could simply be that the market has few opportunities for positions at your previous level.

Perhaps you鈥檙e seeking better work鈥搇ife balance than you had in your previous roles, or maybe you鈥檙e pursuing further education and want bandwidth to be able to focus on that alongside work.

There鈥檚 a delicate balance to strike in addressing overqualification, and the important message to get across is that you鈥檙e confident this role is the work you love doing and the right fit for you at this point in your life.听听

4. What鈥檚 an example of a difficult situation you had with a co-worker or customer, and how did you handle it?

When interviewers ask for examples of tough situations, what they鈥檙e looking for is a sense of how you handle stress and manage relationships. Will you listen to others and collaborate, or will you stick to your guns against all odds? Are you resilient in the face of opposition, or do you cave quickly?

Good answers to this prompt demonstrate a blend of emotional intelligence and fortitude. This might not be the right moment, for example, to bring up that one time you really frustrated a customer and held your ground. But then again, it could be if the situation worked out well for all involved and demonstrated your ability to turn around bad situations.

Look for an example that showcases your personal aptitude for reading emotions well and de-escalating conflict. If you found a way to strike a bargain that helped both sides, even better.听听

5. What are your compensation expectations for this role?

For many of us, salary negotiation is the most uncomfortable part of job hunting. Negotiation is a specialized skill that requires strategy and practice, so it can be nerve-racking for the inexperienced.

Whether this question arises at the end of the interview process or earlier, it鈥檚 always a negotiation question. As a result, it鈥檚 important to address it with a mixture of confidence and market-savvy.

Negotiation experts are divided on whether you want to be the first to state a number or let the employer state their range first. The act of stating the initial number in a negotiation can have an anchoring effect, as it becomes the baseline number around which the negotiation revolves. If you anchor the number too high, you could put yourself out of the running, while a lower number could leave you with less than you could have walked away with.

If you鈥檝e been in a particular industry or role for a while and you鈥檙e familiar with going rates, this can be more straightforward. You probably even have numbers in mind for your minimum requirement and the top end of the range. In that case, it may be a good idea to anchor the discussion near the top of the range, giving the employer room to negotiate downward, and taking your level of experience into consideration.

In some states, it鈥檚 now mandatory for employers to list salary ranges with job postings. If you鈥檙e interviewing for a role with a posted salary range and you鈥檙e not ready to negotiate, you might try simply stating that the posted range is acceptable and that you鈥檇 look forward to speaking more specifically about it.

When you reach the point of actually negotiating your compensation package, you鈥檒l want to be ready with some proven negotiation tactics.听听

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Robert Strohmeyer is a serial entrepreneur and executive with more than 30 years of experience starting and running companies. He has served in leadership roles at three successful software startups over the past decade, and his writing on business and technology has appeared in such publications as Wired, PCWorld, Forbes, Executive Travel, Smart Business, Businessweek and many others. He lives in the San Francisco Bay Area.

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ABOUT THE REVIEWER

Jessica Roper, SM调教所 director of Career Services, is a seasoned leader with over 15 years of experience in leadership within higher education. She has honed her expertise in student services and career development and is passionate about helping others discover and refine their skills.

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